One Night's Risk: A Lesbian Mother's Regret

I went on a girls' trip to the bahamas before i was married and hooked up with a hot guy who was there for a bachelor. I went to school, i was involved in community activities, i attended church every sunday, and i had quite a few friends. But for years, i held on to a secret: No one knew i was a lesbian. Young women regret casual sex less if they take the initiative and the sex was good, according to a new study.

One is now happily living with her lesbian partner, but the other bitterly regrets blurring the boundaries of friendship and sex. Despite the extent to which the lgbtq community emphasizes narratives of progress and triumph, feelings of shame, guilt, regret, and ambivalence figured significantly in these. Professor kennair and colleagues professor mons bendixen and postdoctoral fellow trond viggo grøntvedt have investigated whether sexual regret is functional, that is, whether it contributes. Many people regret not doing more to pursue a romantic relationship or a night of passion. Men regret their failure to take action more than women do. Men's degree of regret was largely. During sex, the temporary connection you feel in the heat of the moment quickly dissolves into loneliness. Hooking up seemed like such a good idea at the time — it felt fun, sexy, and.